Start each day with, it's going be a great day, and end each night with, it was a great day because... #affirmations is key, in a life of struggles!!!
And when you choose a life partner, you are choosing someone who will affect everything in your life: your mental health, your peace of mind, the love inside of you, your frequency, how you get through tragedies, how your children will be raised and so much more. Choose wisely.
Things that can be equally true: - Being an empath and having boundaries. - Doing shadow work and having peace of mind. - Being soft and strong. - Healing and falling in love with people and life again. - Learning and unlearning. - Being spiritual and having an ego.
Self love is not just cutting toxic people from your life, but also cutting ties with the version of yourself who allowed that relationship to continue for as long as it did. Playing the victim will only blind you to your own flaws, and create unilateral misery/toxic cycles.